38 year old, man from United States

am every easy to get alone with .

I love to serve and will give freely of myself in order to nurture others´ lives. I like to feel important, especially to my significant other, and I have the natural ability to make that happen. I tend to be very selfless, and my first thought is always "how will this affect my partner?" I would be willing to sacrifice going out with friends or engaging in an activity that I enjoy on my own to do something less exciting with my significant other - not that they would necessarily ask me to - but just knowing I would give them a great feeling. Driven by Intimacy, I seek deep, personal connections with my partner. That doesn´t just mean that I want to understand everything about them. I wouldn´t feel that my relationship was complete unless she understood me completely either. I look for a partner who can move beyond superficial conversation and is willing to understand every bit about what makes me. I love to give openly and always go the extra mile to please my partner. All I desire in return is that she appreciates the effort that I make to do what I do. I will be happiest in finding someone who is comfortable and open in expressing that appreciation and who doesn´t take my 110% effort for granted. I like stability and security in my relationships and in life in general. I want a partner who communicates in word and deed that she is committed to me so that I always feel on stable ground in the relationship. I also want someone who will establish a solid (and safe) lifestyle with me and not force me to take high stakes risks, although, I am open-minded in this area, because some risks will really do wonders to enhance the quality of my life. Just a little about What I am looking for: Honest, knows how to have fun and help me relax from work, caring, lovable, and if you have kids then I think we would have way more in common and understand some things but if you don´t then you must love kids. I am looking for an honest, fun, caring, outgoing woman that I can spend some quality time with when I am not working. I work a lot of hours and am very busy but would like a reason to slow down and just relax a bit. really have forgotten what I enjoy doing anymore...What turns me on is when my partner is with me all time when am at work we both call each other just to make sure we are okay,,,,Marriage is good??? But does that knows they cant commit their self´s in marriage shouldn´t go into marriage, Cos marriage is understanding, loyalty ,truthful, and trust worthy Etc,..I like doing any thing out door, Like Dancing, cooking, reading, claiming, camping, swimming, running, take a walk to the beach, shopping,listening to music e.t.c,I have never married but have been in a relationship that lasted only 3years with uncaring woman who pretended to love me and never showed me love... i have remained lonely for 1 year ,, cuz ever since she left me, i find it hard to fall in love with any other woman.. am actually new to dating sites never dated online before and i don´t know how it works Well i most confess that am looking forward to meet a caring, trust worthy, straight woman that would never break my heart or hurt me for any reason to start life with and ready for marriage But am been careful cos i hate divorce... Anyways am 6´5.5 inches tall, 235lbs, black hair and black eye .. I have done a lot of soul searching over the past decade and realized that I am ready to settle down. I don´t wanna rush into anything, but I am looking for the one. I hope she is out here

Blue....Among my favorite song is Kenny roger;s tittled lady .

am scared of divorce

Am looking for the woman of my life , so i can be the happiest on earth .